Pamela Metivier

Resided in Escanaba, MI
Died September 29, 2023

Pamela Jane Metivier, 65, of Escanaba passed away on Friday, September 29 at UP Health System in Marquette after suffering a heart attack.  She was surrounded by her loving family on the night of a harvest moon as she entered eternal life.

Born October 26, 1957 in Escanaba, Michigan, Pamela was the sixth child of the late Les and Mary Lark.  Pam, along with her seven siblings, grew up on Ogden Avenue near Ludington Park.  She was a spirited soul with a witty personality and genuine sense of humor.  Her sweet and friendly nature extended to everyone around her with her contagious smile and uncanny ability to talk to anyone.

Pamela had three wonderful sons that she raised together with her husband Bob.  She earned her teaching degree at Northern Michigan University and spent twenty years in Sault Ste Marie, MI as the director of the gifted and talented program at JKL Bahweting School.  She was blessed to work with many exceptional students that she cared for deeply.  Pam was also an understanding and enthusiastic friend and supporter of the Native American community.

After she retired, Pam and her husband Bob moved home to Escanaba to be closer to family. In retirement she dedicated her time to substitute teaching, volunteering, artistic pursuits, and being the best Grandma ever.  She made her mark on the GFWC Escanaba Woman’s Club as Vice President and participated on many of the club’s committees.  Pam was an exceptionally gifted artist and musician and was always creating; she painted, sewed, crafted and composed.  She had a beautiful voice and loved playing guitar and singing for others.  Her friends and community all across the Upper Peninsula gave her great inspiration in all of her artistic endeavors.  She was an avid festival goer and managed to attend all of her favorite music festivals this past summer.

Pamela is survived by her devoted husband of fifty years, Bob Metivier; sons, Sahl (Katy) Metivier, Obadiah Metivier and Nicholas (Michele Larson) Metivier; grandchildren, Shania Pore, Stella and Victor Metivier; siblings, Susan Lark Clifton, David (Mary) Lark, Meadow (Mark) Erickson, Samuel (Jay) Lark, Deborah (Curtis Marder) Lark, Bill (Connie) Lark, Cindy (David) Anthony. She also leaves behind many dear nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents Les and Mary Lark and infant brother Matthew.

Pamela’s family would like to extend their sincere appreciation to the ICU nurses, doctors and team members at UP Health System for their kind and compassionate care.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the family and will be directed to Bay Cliff Health Camp and Wheelin’ Sportsmen nonprofit organizations. 

A celebration of life will take place on Saturday, October 7, 2023 at the Escanaba Yacht Club.  The family will receive friends beginning at 1 p.m. until the time of service at 3 p.m., a light luncheon is to follow.

17 Tributes for “Pamela Metivier”

    Pam was a pleasure to know. Always smiling, her positive spirit and love for Music will be long remembered.

    I met Pam 20 years ago in Grand Marais at the music festival. She walked into our campsite one night with her guitar and asked if anyone liked John Prine and then she played Angel from Montgomery. It became her signature song for the Munising crew and she was welcomed into our tribe that night. She truly was an Angel with an inner light that burned bright in whatever she did; music, art, teaching, laughter and friendship. We will miss her greatly but we take some small comfort in knowing that parts of Pam will shine on in the lives that she helped save by being an organ donor. Move over John. The lady is on her way to see you. Get the band ready.

    I am so sorry for the passing of your dear sister, Pam. She surely was a honey and will be sadly missed.prayers and thoughts are with all of the family. Our precious Lord is with you all.

    Bob,we just learned of Pam’s passing. I can never come up with much to say in these circumstances, but to tell you we are thinking of you at this sad time, and I would call but can’t locate your number. Am trying to look you up now.

    To the family of Pam. I am still in shock after reading in the paper of Pam’s untimely death. Pam and I became friends through GFWC-Escanaba Woman’s Club. We had just been together Sept. 22nd, at the GFWC opening meeting at the House of Ludington. She was the club’s Vice President. She and I were substitute teachers, I retiring in 2019, and we talked about our work when we would get together. Pam also helped with the Adopt-a-Highway project the club began in 1994. She was always one to want to help and I will always be thankful for that. She will be missed. I will keep the family in thought/prayer. May the memories you have of Pam bring comfort to your soul and may it put a smile on your face. Rest in peace dear friend.

    I am so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. She was a dear friend of mine ever since our high school years. Although I have not gotten enough chances to spend much time with her over the years I cherish every moment I did. She never failed to lift my spirits and make me laugh. You simply could not be around her without having a wonderful time. She was, and always will be, one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever known. My condolences to her family and friends as I know she will be deeply missed. Shine on my dear friend

    To Pam’s immediate and extended family, I would like to offer you all my deepest condolences. I know she will be greatly missed not only by you but by many more people whose lives she touched. Pam was not only gifted but a kind and caring soul who will always live on in spirit. I wish you all peace and comfort during this sad time.

    Pam, You are one of a kind! So nice to have met you and play songs together. Pass on to glory, you beautiful soul!

    Robin Leitch

    Whoever wrote this obituary described very well the person I knew. We met through mutual friends and an interest in music. She did have an ability to relate to anyone. We spent many hours at jam sessions in the Sault. R.I.P. Pam, but keep your spirit singing.

    I will always cherish the years that I knew and loved Pam. Her spirit and beautiful smile are lighting up heaven now. I will truly miss her.

    We are so very sorry for your loss…Pam was the kind of person that after seeing her you felt better about yourself and about life…..always had a hug a smile and kind words. She will be missed by many.

    Sending love, hugs, & prayers for comfort to all the Metivier & Lark Families. Pam was a very special woman. Beautiful & talented in so many ways. She had a wonderful presence & a welcoming smile for everyone she met. Wish I could be there today for her Celebration of life to hug you all. XO

    Pam was the ultimate cheerleader for all things positive and wonderful in the world – her spirit and energy will surely continue to shine from the heavens – She was one of my favorite people and my heart breaks for bob , the kids and grand babies who will have a forever angel looking over them – God Bless you all ❤️‍

    Sahl & Family,

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. While I do not recall ever having the pleasure of meeting your mom, clearly she was an amazing person from what I am reading here. What a loss for the world, too. I am, and will always be, grateful that our paths have crossed. Much love to you and your family during this difficult time.

    I am so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing… I worked with Pam at JKL for many years. She was a wonderful woman and so talented in many ways… I have fond memories of her.. RIP Pam

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